Don't waste your money, time and effort just to pull-down somebody; you cannot pull down somebody unless if you fall yourself down first. By doing this, you spend money time and effort for your enemies and for self destruction. Only fool spend his/her money time and effort to destroy him/herself. Push others up by doing this you push yourself up.
A simple logic to gossipers and ways to test who gossip you is this: if she/he can afford to gossip others on you behind their backs then why not can he/she afford of gossiping you if your not around? The gossipers is doing gossip all the time, careful with this kind of people. What's the thing that hold between you and this gossipers in order to make sure that he/she will not gossip you. If you rebuke gossipers when they start gossiping on you then this is the only thing that help yourself protecting this kind of personality. Then you can help yourself also to limit your trust in this kind of people. There are only two options that we can choose, to lose friendship with this kind of people or lose our refutations. Likewise if you are gossipers, reading this article you now know that gossiping others is a self destruction of your own refutation. Stop gossiping others, you are not destroying yourself but also other. You will realized someday when you are in the court facing the charges of Libel and slander. Pick your choice. A participants to the gossip; do not enjoy the information from the gossipers. How heart relieving to hear information regarding people we hate and we don't like, this is not healthy diet for our soul; to find relieve from false testimony we can only find a safe refuge to the Lord through His Words.
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